Light

Each year on October 15th the world unites in a display of solidarity, remembrance, and compassion. The International Wave of Light is a global event that invites individuals from all walks of life to light a candle at sunset in honor of those who have been lost to miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant death. This simple act is one of remembrance and a powerful symbol of hope, healing, and the enduring bonds that connect us all.

The origins of the International Wave of Light can be traced back to a small group of mothers in the United Kingdom who sought to honor their lost children. Inspired by the idea of creating a global movement, they organized the first Wave of Light event in 2014. The response was overwhelming, with thousands of people participating from around the world. Since then, the event has grown exponentially, becoming a beloved tradition for families who have experienced the profound grief of losing a child.  Events can be found ranging from Niagara Falls, Gillette Stadium in Boston, Heathrow Terminal 2, Bank of England, and other locations across England and Ireland along with countless individuals participating virtually around the world.

This Wave of Light is more than just a commemorative, annual event. It is a powerful time for fostering understanding, empathy, and support for those who have suffered the loss of a child. By participating in the Wave of Light, individuals can connect with others who share their experiences, find solace in knowing they are not alone, and receive the comfort and encouragement they need to heal.

This annual event welcomes people from all cultures, religions, and backgrounds, regardless of their personal beliefs or experiences. This diversity and worldwide group serves to remind us of our shared humanity and the universal nature of grief.

As the sun begins to set on October 15th, candles or lights will be lit across the globe. From bustling cities to remote villages, people will gather together to honor their lost children and to offer a beacon of hope for those who continue to grieve. The International Wave of Light is a testament to the enduring power of human connection and the resilience of the human spirit.

Sure, there are groups and larger events around the world, but participation can be just as simple as lighting a candle or light in your home at sunset.  This moment will allow for a meaningful opportunity to honor your lost child and find solace.  Knowing millions of people around the world are doing the same thing gives a sense of bond with others. 

It is important to help spread awareness of miscarriage, stillbirth, and infant loss and provide support to those who are struggling to cope with loss. Each person is important, no matter where their address is around the world. Loss is hard, but humans long for connection.  It is up to each one of us to be that flicker of light in the darkness.

Each year on October 15th at sunset, remember to take a moment and light a candle or special light.  As the candle flickers in the darkness, let us always remember the children who were lost far too soon.  Let us take a moment to honor each of them.

XOXO

Mark and Megan